Good dealing with wife:One should take care of other’s emotions, needs and temper, and they should forgive each other in all aspects of life. This is the secret of a happy married life. This is demanded from both the husband and the wife. But, a woman is naturally very emotional. She, therefore, needs to be dealt carefully. Almighty Allah says in the Glorious Qur’ān
Live with them in the recognized manner
Sayyidnā Abū Hurayrah (rz) reported that the Messenger of Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said, “The most perfect man in his faith among the believers is the one whose behaviour is most excellent; and the best of you are those who are the best to their wives-
A man behaves well with outsiders because he seldom meets them and it is, therefore, easy for him to interact with them so honourably. But dealing well with family members, with whom one spends days and nights and forgives what is against one’s temper is absolutely a good manner-
Urging good dealings with women, the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said, “And I advise you to take care of the women, for they are created from a rib and the most crooked portion of the rib is its upper part; if you try to straighten it, it will break, and if you leave it, it will remain crooked, so I urge you to take care of the women-
Good behaviour of the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam
The Messenger of Allah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) would love his family members and have pleasantries with his wives and have food together from the same pot. Sayyidah ʿĀ’ishah (rz) said: When I drink water from the pot while in menstruation period and give the pot to the Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam), he drinks from the same place which touched my mouth. Moreover, during menstruation, I was eating from the piece of meat and giving the same to the Prophet and he put his mouth in the same place of mine-
Sayyidah ʿĀ’ishah (rz) narrated:Once on Eid habshi ghulams were playing in the courtyard of the masjid with dart and buckler, Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam asked , Aisha you want to see the game, I said yes. Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam stood in front and Aisha (raz -iallahuanha) stood at the back hiding behind Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam , and kept her chin on the shoulders of Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam and started watching , Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam asked regularly Aisha are you not satisfied now ? are you not satisfied now ? and she said I want to see the game-Good dealing with wife
I know when you are pleased with me or angry with me
More Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam stood like this(till she got satisfied ).Aisha (raziallahuanha) said I was asking to see the game more, so that I can have an idea how much Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam loves her-
Sayyidah ʿĀ’ishah (rz) reports that Allah’s Messenger (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) said to her, “I know when you are pleased with me or angry with me.” I said, “How do you know that?” He said, “When you are pleased with me, you say, ‘No, by the Lord of Muhammad,’ but when you are angry with me, then you say, ‘No, by the Lord of Abraham.’ “Thereupon I said, “Yes (you are right), but by Allah, O Allah’s Messenger (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam), I leave nothing but your name (but remember you by heart-
Right of inheritancen
The wife also inherits wealth and estate from her husband. If the husband leaves behind any child, the wife will get one eighth of the wealth and if he has no child, then the wife will get one fourth of wealth of her husband-Good dealing with wife
